You hate your job, you barely see your kids, the parent teacher conferences are coming up and either your bank account is full but your afraid to spend, or your living paycheck to paycheck, and for some, those child support payments are decaying because your ex is always unemployed but somehow manages to plaster themselves all over social media advertising their unwedded lifestyle.

Maybe your ex is has a lucrative career with a 6 figure income while your just barely making ends meet. You just can’t do it anymore, your alone and unsupported, your crying in the bathroom, hiding from your kids in your bedroom, or maybe feeling the scrutiny from others because your a single parent. Single parents seem to be invisible parents in Santa Barbara, Montecito, Goleta, and Carpinteria. I’m here to help you stand out. If your in need of housing support or other basic needs; then Case management shall be a part of your journey with me. Don’t let another day go by, you need this, you deserve this time to share and to learn how you can succeed as single parent.

How does everyone else do it? You cant even move off your couch and leaving the house is now just a faint memory.

Your not feeling attractive and your constantly comparing yourself to the mothers that wear a full face of makeup and don’t seem to have bags under their eyes; you just can’t compare.

Or, your the only dad at back to school night with no mom at you side.

You feel so alone with parenting and everything else. Dating crosses your mind, but where, or how do you begin? A dating website is not ideal for you and all the talk about dating disasters terrifies you. You desire closeness, compatibility, and maybe you're even ready to love again.

True love begins with you though. How much do you love yourself? Are you taking the time that you need for YOU… or is time not on your side? Whether your a mother or a father you deserve a healthy companion, reliable friends, and so much more.

Let me help you get off of your lily pad. Let’s build more emotional stability, self confidence, and self love so that you can smile again, so that you can have someone thing or someone to look forward to.